Tag: eldest daughter

  • Not Fretting about What’s next?

    What does freedom mean to you?

    Freedom, to me, means not constantly fretting about “What’s next?” Often, we convince ourselves we’re content in our shell, yet beneath the surface, many of us harbor unknown worries. Some of us become overly preoccupied with tomorrow or the future. I’m one of those individuals who can’t shake the obsession with “what’s next?” I’ve attempted countless times and in myriad ways to live in the moment, but external pressures and my eldest daughter’s trauma persistently haunt me. It’s easier said than done, you know. Amidst all this turmoil, one thing remains certain: surrendering and entrusting all worries and concerns to the Almighty brings solace and peace of mind. As for you, how do you manage your anxieties and worries?

  • Why do I fail in budgeting?

    Daily writing prompt
    Write about your approach to budgeting.

    To be frank, budgeting is something I have never been able to get right so far. Despite my continuous efforts to establish a specific budget for my monthly expenses, I find myself consistently falling short of the vision I have set for myself. Many times, I end up overspending, and this is not solely due to my personal expenses but also because of family-related expenditures. No matter how hard I try, I have never managed to gain control over this aspect.

    Currently, my approach to budgeting is flexible, as I tend to utilize the available funds without prior budgeting. I am actively seeking ways to instill a proper budgeting habit so that I can achieve better financial management.