Every Life is a Tapestry.

Threads of memory, growth, and becoming — woven into words.

Category: Purpose

  • Is it Truly as Simple as ABC?

    Is it truly as simple as ABC, as the saying goes? I distinctly remember struggling immensely to learn how to write the ABCs. It’s not just my own experience; observing young children grappling with the task underscores the difficulty of mastering the English alphabet. This challenge persists even among educated individuals well-versed in literature. So, why do we say “as easy as ABC” and not “as tough as ABC” or “as complicated as ABC”? The bias in this world, from the beginning to the end, is a perplexing aspect.

    As one of my college professors, particularly from the Political Science department, used to emphasize, “We are born with politics, live in politics, and carry it until our last day.” These words echo a truth about the omnipresence of politics in our lives.

    Allow me to express a few lines in my dialect, “Khipana khipali machong mei manem mei mana kachi li khipana ya chi paira? Ringkapha mirin wui shongza khangakhui hili kachipana kachangkhat eina ngakhui zatli doh? ” This underscores the challenges and intricacies embedded in existence.

    Indeed, it’s a competitive world where survival of the fittest reigns. Among billions, a handful live seemingly indifferent to the value of life. Half the population believes money is everything. Meanwhile, billions struggle tirelessly to bring sustenance home, while some grapple with the pressure of overcoming debts, and others rest beneath the weight of debts accumulated from people.

    Life, in its essence, is both unfair and just. The promises of truth prevailing, peace reigning, and justice being rewarded sound comforting, envisioning better days. Yet, are these promises mere notions one must patiently await to manifest in their lives?

    Unanswerable questions loom large, a shared uncertainty. Above all, the beacon that people ardently pursue is that of HOPE. It conquers the atrocities of life, washing away the bitterness of endless tears. I hope, one day, a brighter future will dawn.

  • A paradox rare

    Daily writing prompt
    Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.

    In whispers and hushed tones, let tales unfold,
    Of a presence that brightens, a spirit untold.
    She, strict yet caring, a paradox rare,
    Leaves an indelible mark, a presence to bear.

    Gossip, oh let it dance in the air,
    About the woman who can the mountains dare.
    Anger, a tempest, yet she tames the might,
    With a smile so cheerful, calming the storm’s spite.

    In the tapestry of words, let them weave,
    Her essence, a tale that hearts may believe.
    A light in the day, her aura so bright,
    A symphony of strength and kindness, a rare delight.

    Through corridors of gossip, let them roam,
    Of her grace that turns every house into a home.
    With whispers that echo, in admiration they sway,
    For the woman whose presence lights up the day.

  • How to unfolds life through first experiences

    Daily writing prompt
    Tell us about your first day at something — school, work, as a parent, etc.

    Every living being undergoes first-time experiences, ranging from birth and the journey into maturity to eventual demise. Life unfolds through a series of inaugural moments, shaping our perceptions and understanding.

    The first time, for me, isn’t always pleasant; at times, it’s embarrassingly uncomfortable, prompting a desire to escape and hide from the world. However, some initial experiences are profoundly touching, etching themselves into my memory like a photo stored not only in the gallery but also in the cloud.

    Despite the varying nature of these experiences, they collectively contribute to our growth and evolution, propelling us to become better versions of ourselves. It’s crucial to recognize that the fear of new experiences can hinder our personal development and prosperity. Embracing the unfamiliar is a catalyst for learning and self-improvement.

    Moreover, it’s essential to discern when to face challenges head-on and when to exercise caution. Making informed choices requires the wisdom gained from lessons learned during our initial experiences. These lessons equip us with the knowledge needed to navigate life’s complexities and make sound decisions.

  • How I overcome Stage Fright and Empower Others

    Daily writing prompt
    Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?

    Performing on stage is a diverse art form that encompasses various subjects. Most individuals are not inherently born as stage performers, yet some possess an inborn genius that allows them to effortlessly command the stage. While many people may shy away from the stage for any purpose, even if given the chance to do so, others excel in different artistic fields such as singing, acting, speaking, dancing, and more.

    As for myself, I am not a singer, dancer, or orator with the eloquence of figures like Shashi Tharoor or Michelle Obama, nor can I sing like Taylor Swift. I am an ordinary individual who becomes flustered and blushes whenever I step onto the stage. Despite my perceived limitations, I have participated in numerous performances on both big and small stages.

    My first experience on stage was in 1st standard when my mom urged me to recite a memory verse during the school assembly. I vividly recall feeling completely flustered and forgetting the lines I had learned. However, under the stern gaze of my mom, I managed to remember the verse, delivering it at lightning speed due to nervousness. Although no one could comprehend what I recited, I was excused that day as it marked my initial foray into stage performance.

    Since then, I have engaged in choir singing, delivered speeches, oriented people, provided training, and now I serve as a trainer guiding others in communication. The journey to reach this point was not easy, but I am committed to becoming a better version of myself each day. I am confident that, If given the opportunity and proper guidance, we can all excel in different fields, even those we never dreamed of.

  • Aptitude test?

    I am serious this time. I’ve noticed that my brain doesn’t function well during aptitude tests. Whenever I attempt one, I struggle to finish it with proper concentration or the will to think through the answers.

    I am confident that this is the result of excessive exposure to social media. Lately, I’ve been so attached to it that sometimes I can’t even stay away for a minute. Now, I lack the confidence to tackle aptitude tests, and it’s bothering me.

    I’m concerned about what might happen going forward. Do others face similar circumstances? In my case, it’s affecting my aptitude, but for others, it could be different experiences. We find ourselves in situations where it seems we lose control of our lives, and instead, life starts controlling us. This is a serious matter that I need to address and take immediate action on. I hope such situations don’t occur for anyone else.

  • How ‘One Day at a Time’ approach keeps me going

    If you had been reading my expressions daily, you would have understood me more or less to some extent. You might have a slight understanding of how I live my life, what I do, or my way of thinking. Today, like any other day, I had an insignificant yet blessed day. As I undertake the marathon journey of better living, I seem to have stuck at one point in time where the world stops revolving around me. I have faced numerous setbacks until now. I know I am seriously not in a position to relax and take one step at a time. Nevertheless, I am slowing down my pace and am looking forward to keep going instead of quitting or never moving forward. I am blessed that I am surrounded by wonderful people every single day who make my world a hundred times brighter. The simple question of “Ma’am, how are you? Are you okay?” makes my heart melt. If only I were in a better position, I would have no hesitation to stay longer.

  • Wildlife

    Daily writing prompt
    Do you ever see wild animals?

    I have encountered wild animals such as deer, wild boars, civet cats, and flying squirrels during my childhood. In those days, hunting was permitted in my village, and my father, being a skilled sharpshooter, would hunt frequently. The animals were either for our family’s consumption or for commercial purposes, serving as the primary source of income for him at the time.

    However, hunting is now prohibited in the village, and owning guns without a license is illegal. Consequently, most people no longer own guns or engage in hunting. IN the past, even if they do, there is a conscious effort to preserve the wildlife. They ensure not to hunt pregnant animals or during breeding seasons, leaving behind some animals to allow for reproduction. This practice reflects a positive aspect of their approach to hunting. (It’s not encouraged to hunt even during the non breeding season now)

    Despite these efforts, the population of animals in the forest has significantly decreased compared to the past. I used to hear the sounds of deer near my house and monkeys hooting in the vicinity, but these sounds have become rare now. It is commendable that my fellow villagers decided to cease hunting, contributing to the conservation and increase in the animal population.

    It’s better late than never to implement such measures, as once the animals disappear completely, there’s no way to bring them back.

  • Happy soul

    This was an outcome of my distraction, while I was working on my project work. I had this random thought going through my mind, as I was thinking about making the work meaningful and sustainable. It was what I wasn’t intended to draw, I will not be able to draw this if I were to really draw haha. But yeah I thought this is something I need to cherish cause It’s beautiful for me.

  • A parrot in a cage

    Have you ever felt the paradox of being free to fly on your own while being bound within certain constraints? It may sound absurd, but I’ve been there. Despite being aware that I could be anything I wanted and had the right to make my own decisions, I often felt confined to a small, protected zone. It was akin to being a parrot in a cage (if you catch my drift)– a situation where every step and action seemed to be scrutinized from an observer’s perspective rather than that of a fellow individual.

    In this stifling environment, unable to grow or move forward, overwhelmed by the circumstances around me. I won’t lie; I fell into depression, experiencing the worst nightmare of my life. That’s when I realized I needed to break free.

    It takes a lot of courage to come to terms with the fact that I matter before anyone else, especially considering the responsibility I had in supporting my family with the little resources I had. Nevertheless, I decided to bite the bullet and free myself, albeit with skepticism. The journey out of that situation was challenging, requiring me to shield myself from various obstacles.

    It has taken almost a year for me to recover from the ordeal, and I am still on the path of self-discovery. It has been a recent rollercoaster ride with many demands on my service, thanks to being the eldest child in a middle-class family. Anyway, I am happy, though not entirely satisfied. Wish me luck in achieving a contented life. Peace!

  • Sakura feeling

    OCTOBER is a month of cosmos, rhododendrons, fall, clear sky with the best moon and stars. Where the Cherry blossoms, painting the world into a mystical fantasy. The season of Halloween and the anticipation for Christmas is at its highest peak. The spirit to march forward with zeal and enthusiasm as the year is coming to an end in two months’ time. There’s no greater feeling than waiting for the winter break when I’d get to meet my family, loved ones, and friends after a year of toil. Oh, what can be better than this…