How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?
The saying goes, “Failure is the stepping stone to success,” but I seem to have encountered numerous stepping stones without achieving success in life. The stepping stones aren’t really significant, maybe lol. I hope to take a more substantial leap towards the success I am seeking very soon.
You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?
In crafting the opening line of my autobiography, I would aptly express, “Embarking on a journey demanding millions in patience and determination, characterized by unending toils and trials.” This would definitely be my opening remarks.
What are three objects you couldn’t live without?
Three objects I couldn’t live without are:
1. Eye glasses 🕶️
2. Money
3. [Leave this space for anything more important than money.] I have to leave the space for some more important things that I can’t live without yet haven’t realised it at the moment.
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?
That experience ( I’d prefer not to say) almost led me astray, making me doubt myself and question my worth. In those moments, I found myself belittling not only my capabilities but also becoming toxic to those around me. It’s challenging to fathom how a strong-headed woman can transform into such a person within a year. Nevertheless, I am grateful for the loved ones who provided space, allowed me to grow, prayed for me, and guided me towards becoming a better version of myself through those life experiences. I owe it all to Jesus for placing such wonderful and amazing people in my life. I am actively working on becoming a better version of myself.
Do you believe in fate/destiny?
I don’t have much belief in the concept, perhaps because I haven’t had any personal experiences that can be called fate or destiny. Or maybe I am somewhat ignorant to realize it. Nonetheless, I have very little belief in this theory, so I dismiss it.
Do you enjoy your job?
I am enjoying my job and feeling a sense of satisfaction at the end of the day. I sometimes feel the need to keep myself more updated and busy because the receivers are all eager learners.
Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.
The Year towards young adulthood was wholesome. No tension specifically in terms of finance like what I do now. The only worries was life after this yet all the enjoyment makes it wonderful. How about yours dear readers.
If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?
I ain’t gonna be some one else. I am just happy who I am yet I will strive for a better version of me.
What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?
Saving money. This ain’t a joke when I say this. It’s really hard to be able to save some amount when your outgoing (not expenses) is more than the income.
What advice would you give to your teenage self?
Dear myself
I write to you with utmost ardor, expressing my joy that you handled the experiences well. It’s also absolutely fine to score ZERO in Math and receive punishment for the same. It’s okay to admit your failure, take up the courage to face challenges, and tackle more difficult papers. They’re not truly challenging if you analyze them properly. So, don’t limit yourself to your comfort zone but go beyond limits, as the sky is the limit.