Every Life is a Tapestry.

Threads of memory, growth, and becoming — woven into words.

Category: Sojourner

  • Why I complain about in life

    Bloganuary writing prompt
    What do you complain about the most?
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    There are numerous things in life that I find myself complaining about. Haha, I’m not someone who leans heavily towards positive thinking or is an extreme pessimist. I become most agitated when confronted with a conceited person who engages in a lot of empty talk. Interestingly, I seem to have picked up this habit over time.

    I often find myself pondering why some people can enjoy life from such a young age, while I’m still figuring out how to navigate it. Consequently, I have plenty to complain about. Most of the time, my grievances revolve around life seeming unfair to me. Honestly, I can’t pinpoint what I complain about the most in life.

  • Winning a lottery is never my cup of tea

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    What would you do if you won the lottery?
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    If I were ever to win a lottery, the first action on my agenda would be taking my mom to the hospital and settling our family’s debts. By family debt, I am referring to the loans we’ve taken to fund the education of all four of us, given the unstable income of my parents. This would undeniably be one of the best days of my life, as it would alleviate a significant burden for my family. Subsequently, we could treat our parents to a tour around the country, at the very least. The only caveat is my skepticism about ever winning a lottery, given my historically absent luck in such matters.

  • Who I am is more important than judgement from my appearance

    Maturing swiftly, seemingly unaware of the years passing by, I find myself blessed with yet another year. In my younger years, I held the belief that by my current age, I would have achieved complete independence. However, I now realize this was mere wishful thinking, as my plans were formulated without actively involving God in my prayers and aspirations. I was confident that I could contend with time and attain full independence, allowing my parents to enjoy their lives without concerns.

    Reality has struck hard; instead of bringing stress relief, I find myself weighed down by more worries. My plans and dreams have been inconsistent, often wavering from one idea to another. The pressure from my family adds to the uncertainty, making it challenging to hold onto a clear path. I am currently in pursuit of a job that offers better compensation, working tirelessly with the ultimate goal of reducing the pressure.

    My primary objective is to work diligently, earning more, with the bottom line being a desire for respect from my colleagues. I yearn for them to acknowledge and appreciate me for who I am, rather than forming judgments based on appearances.

  • If my pet can reciprocate my mood

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    If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
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    If I could impart one understanding to my pet, it would be the ability to reciprocate with my emotions during mood swings, adjusting accordingly to help me get through the day.

  • Would I get to see Panda one day?

    Bloganuary writing prompt
    What is your favorite animal?
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    I don’t have a particular favorite animal, nor do I harbor a strong affinity for them. While I can appreciate and love animals for a few hours, admiring their inherent cuteness, I tend to dislike them being on my couch, bed, or in my room. Generally, I find joy in the company of pet dogs and cats. Moreover, I have a desire to witness a Panda in person one day.

  • Diary the sanctuary of emotions

    Bloganuary writing prompt
    In what ways do you communicate online?
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    I prefer expressing myself through writing rather than engaging in face-to-face conversations. My diary serves as a sanctuary where I pour out my emotions, expressions, and feelings. However, in contemporary times, I predominantly utilize platforms such as WordPress Prompt, X, Instagram, and various other social media sites to communicate. Occasionally, I complement my written messages with facial expressions, as I have a knack for effectively conveying emotions through non-verbal cues.

  • What according to me is living a long life?

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    What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?
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    Who would not aspire to enjoy a prolonged life? It is indeed a blessing to experience the passage of time over the years. It would be irrational to claim that I do not desire a lengthy life, and I am confident that only a few would express such sentiments. While I do wish for a fulfilling and mature life, I am not inclined to outlive my vitality and become a burden to my loved ones, necessitating their daily care.

    In the event that I find myself in such a predicament, I would prefer a life where I can maintain my independence and relish each day without being a source of trouble for those around me. In such a scenario, I envision living a life free of regrets, savoring moments, and ensuring I leave behind no burdens for my loved ones. Witnessing the joys of my grandchildren and counting my blessings would be the epitome of a beautiful life, one that anyone would dream of experiencing.

  • Four best lesson that 2023 taught me!

    The profound lesson that I gleaned from the tumultuous journey of 2023 is one that instills gratitude and a refusal to complain about life’s adversities. Despite encountering myriad highs and lows, including experiences of humiliation, shame, failures, disapproval, downfall, and the painful loss of loved ones, I find solace in acknowledging the transformative power of this challenging year.

    Regrettably, I confess that I struggled to accept myself during this period and, at times, found it difficult to seek divine intervention through prayer. Moments of questioning my very existence clouded my perspective. However, I realize now that my struggles were not eternal, my failures were not permanent, for 2023 granted me the opportunity to power down my internal engines and initiate a rejuvenating restart. Through this process, I’ve managed to re-focus my life and rediscover the capacity to smile once more.

    Expressing gratitude for the individuals who played pivotal roles in my life, teaching me profound lessons through their presence, I have come to appreciate the diversity of these lessons—some being the harshest, others sweet or bitter. Despite the challenges, I harbor no regrets about embracing these experiences. My earnest prayer extends to each of them, hoping they find or continue to experience the best that life has to offer.

    Allow me to share a few lessons from my 2023 odyssey:

    1. Politely refusing someone in a superior position is not an act of disrespect; rather, it signifies a person of integrity and self-respect.
    2. Recognize that the world extends beyond your limited perspective; embracing the diversity it offers can be a source of invaluable life lessons.
    3. Prioritize your well-being and mental health, even if it means disappointing others. In the grand scheme, it’s your life, not theirs.
    4. Life is ephemeral, and harboring resentment towards undeserving individuals is a futile endeavor. Embrace the wisdom of letting go and moving forward.

    These four insights encapsulate my learning from the past year, and I sincerely hope they prove beneficial to you in times of similar challenges. Take courage, stand up for yourself, for the sands of time do not grant us the luxury of reliving the same year. Seize the moment, act promptly, lest it be too late. Wishing everyone a fulfilling and prosperous 2024.

  • How I Journey for Healing and Hope

    Self-reflection day! Just when a path seems clear, life introduces even greater stumbling blocks. Success, seemingly within reach, often eludes us, appearing farther away than our hopeful visions. It may seem unjust to many, yet numerous individuals have achieved remarkable feats this year. As the year draws to a close, celebrations abound for those who have conquered milestones, but there exists a handful mourning the year’s end due to debt repayment, personal failures, worries about their children’s education, and more.

    My question today is, have we gleaned valuable lessons from the experiences of this year? Do we harbor any regrets in life? Is there room for improvement that we recognize within ourselves? Are we confident enough to step into a new year with a hopeful heart, or are we still contemplating what lies ahead? I won’t deny that I’ve encountered thousands of setbacks this year, making it a challenging period filled with burdens and trials. However, I can proudly proclaim that amidst these challenges, I’ve learned the art of healing, and for that, I am grateful to God.

    As Christmas approaches, my wish is that Santa brings a better life for me and my family in the coming year. Amen!

  • “Everyone is a hero!”

    In the year 2018, I listened to my students’ harrowing tales of Kerala’s devastating floods. They recounted their real-life ordeals of navigating through the floodwaters and enduring the aftermath. As I heard their stories, the distress they experienced became palpable, and I empathized deeply with their struggles. Many had endured nightmares as their homes succumbed to the deluge, forcing them to seek refuge in relief camps.

    However, my understanding took a profound turn when I watched the documentary “2018.” It dawned on me that what they had conveyed to me was merely the tip of the iceberg, and the extent of the devastation was far greater. My heart ached witnessing people grappling with the aftermath of decisions that led to such catastrophic consequences. I pondered what might have happened if certain preventive measures were taken or if they had heeded the warnings of their team members (as seen from the documentary)

    Fast forward to the end of that distressing year, the resilient people of Kerala faced yet another adversary—COVID-19. It’s remarkable how, despite these challenges, many of the individuals I’ve encountered have managed to rebuild their lives successfully. Reflecting on these adversities, I can’t help but contemplate how my own family might have coped in such circumstances and where we might be now.

    Beyond the miseries and dangers, these resilient individuals stand tall, facing the world with unwavering zeal. Their strength in the face of adversity has left a lasting impact on me, making me feel a bit stronger today.