Life tapestries

Category: Purpose

  • The Timid girl’s hustle

    A reflection that I had for almost 6 months 🙂

  • The Man

    Lo and behold, when the universe conspired to intersect our paths on that fateful day, on that day. Never could I have imagined that my forsaken chambers would tremble so, an involuntary shake that lasted for nearly a decade. It lies hidden, buried deep within, never once daring to stir or whisper. No matter how hard I try to escape or forget, the universe always guides me back to the same starting point.

    I have tried so many times to rid myself of it, but it seems to have imprinted itself deeper within me. I know he is not from my world and that our paths were never meant to cross. Despite being fully aware of his devotion to another, I still cannot… Thousands of times, I wonder if he will ever dream of me, as I’ve always longed for.

    Is this obsession? Is it love? Is it admiration? How can I understand the mischief of my own heart? If only I had the courage to let go…

  • From Hills to Hustle

    In the serene embrace of the hills, life flowed gently, a blend of tranquility and simple joys. Yet for Phoebe, those comforting mountains couldn’t contain her dreams. With aspirations soaring beyond her surroundings, she bravely left the lush greens for the bustling city—a place where the sky often wore a dark grey, the humidity was relentless, and salty air hinted at a life far removed from her own.

    As Phoebe stepped onto the city pavement, she was met with a rush of emotions—excitement intertwined with trepidation. The vibrant chaos was intoxicating yet daunting. She soon realized that the city thrived on energy and ambition, often unforgiving to those unprepared to hustle. The busy streets echoed with life, each honk and shout a reminder of the challenges ahead.
    Finding Her Path
    The transition was anything but easy. Phoebe struggled to find her footing in the fast-paced environment, the saline taste of the city’s water mirroring her tumultuous emotions. Every day, she juggled her office responsibilities with managing her home, fueled by the hope of supporting her family back in the hills.

    In those moments of struggle, Phoebe discovered her resilience. She adapted and embraced the hustle. With each setback, she grew stronger, finding purpose in her daily grind. The humid sun became a badge of honor, symbolizing her hard work and determination.
    The Power of Community
    As she navigated her new life, Phoebe found solace in friendships with fellow dreamers, each with their own stories of hardship. Together, they formed a support system, sharing laughter and tears. They celebrated small victories—each job secured, every project completed—reminding one another that every step forward mattered.
    Embracing the Journey
    Through dark clouds and sweltering heat, Phoebe’s spirit remained unbroken. She learned that thriving wasn’t solely about financial success; it was about personal growth and resilience. Each challenge became a stepping stone, guiding her closer to her goals.
    Over time, Phoebe not only found stability but also discovered a passion for empowering others like her. She began mentoring young girls from the hills, sharing her journey, and reminding them that their dreams were valid, no matter how distant they seemed.
    A Message of Hope
    Phoebe’s story exemplifies the power of perseverance. It teaches us that even amidst the city’s hustle and bustle, hope can shine through. She reminds us that every journey starts with a single step and that the strength to thrive lies within us all.
    So, whether you’re navigating the streets of a bustling city or the paths of your own life, remember Phoebe’s story. Embrace your struggles, seek support, and let your dreams guide you. The journey may be tough, but the rewards are immeasurable. Keep pushing forward—your hills await you on the other side of the hustle.

  • Confidence

    What do you think gets better with age?

    Through age comes wisdom, shaped by experiences, lessons, learnings, and ideas that lead to accepting life as it is and not being too harsh on oneself. Through all the ups and downs, I master self-discovery and look forward to what life has to offer. We become a better version of ourselves every day, and with this, we build confidence in what we are doing. The most difficult tasks become part of our everyday routine. I know I am not wrong in saying that through age I gain confidence, because that’s exactly how I am living my life now. The curiosity to try and take action makes everything different. So, I am grounding myself to take action and give it a try. If it works, it works; if not, I can always go to plan B.

  • Not Fretting about What’s next?

    What does freedom mean to you?

    Freedom, to me, means not constantly fretting about “What’s next?” Often, we convince ourselves we’re content in our shell, yet beneath the surface, many of us harbor unknown worries. Some of us become overly preoccupied with tomorrow or the future. I’m one of those individuals who can’t shake the obsession with “what’s next?” I’ve attempted countless times and in myriad ways to live in the moment, but external pressures and my eldest daughter’s trauma persistently haunt me. It’s easier said than done, you know. Amidst all this turmoil, one thing remains certain: surrendering and entrusting all worries and concerns to the Almighty brings solace and peace of mind. As for you, how do you manage your anxieties and worries?

  • Who according to me is a unique person?

    Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

    There are indeed numerous aspects that render a person unique. However, for me, authenticity lies in fully embracing oneself, transcending comfort zones, and wholeheartedly accepting both flaws and blessings. In essence, we often label individuals as ‘multi-talented,’ but it’s not merely about having multiple talents; it’s about venturing beyond comfort zones and refusing to confine oneself to a single corner. Such individuals are genuinely unique and exceedingly rare to encounter.

  • Navigating the balance

    How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?

    Navigating the balance between assertiveness and empathy can be challenging, but it’s crucial for personal growth. Despite occasional struggles, I prioritize saying “no” when necessary to avoid regrets later. While my emotional intelligence often surpasses my intellectual quotient, I acknowledge the importance of assertiveness in staying focused on my goals. I’m actively honing my interpersonal skills to ensure that prioritizing my objectives doesn’t compromise my relationships.

  • If only I can sing

    What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?

    I wish I could sing and play instruments. I regret not having dedicated more time and attention to learning and improving these skills.

  • Neither chilly nor humid weather

    What is your favorite type of weather?

    A serene monsoon evening spent by the fireside, relishing freshly roasted sweet corn or maize with cherished loved ones, is indeed a delightful moment to treasure. However, if I were to choose a favorite season, it would undoubtedly be spring, when vibrant flowers bloom and melodious bird songs fill the air. Moreover, during this time of the year, an array of local products from Mother Nature’s bounty enriches the experience. The weather is pleasantly temperate, neither oppressively humid nor bitterly cold, allowing for the freedom to wear clothing of one’s choice.

  • Solace in moments of laughter

    What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

    I find solace in moments of solitary laughter, accompanied by the melodies of music. In those moments, I offer prayers to dispel any lingering negativity. Engaging in household chores or tending to my garden serves as a welcomed distraction, allowing me to immerse myself in tasks that soothe the mind. Today, I experienced a similar wave of emotions and indulged in a room makeover, a delightful endeavor indeed.