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  • I am rather an experimental rather than superstitious

    Are you superstitious?

    In most situations, I don’t concern myself with superficial matters, as I believe there’s often underlying logic to be understood. Rather than subscribing to superstition, I prefer an experimental approach, seeking to uncover truth through observation and investigation

  • I a Cat?

    Which animal would you compare yourself to and why?

    I’m not sure which animal I can compare myself to, but I think I resemble a cat. I don’t enjoy being touched or receiving caresses. Initially reserved around new people, I become quite comfortable once I’ve befriended them.

  • Dear future me

    Write a letter to your 100-year-old self.

    Dear Self, congratulations on reaching this point! I am genuinely pleased that you’ve made it this far. As you read this today, recognize the blessings that surround you. You embody greatness as a devoted mother, wife, and grandma. The journey hasn’t been easy, and I acknowledge the strength it took to get here.

    Back in your late 20s, you carried the family with unwavering determination. Branded shirts and Gucci bags were absent, yet you exuded undeniable grace and fabulosity. Your dreams remained steadfast, and your resilience paved the way for your success today. Regardless of the challenges, your ability to smile and persist has transformed you into an exceptional human.

    Hold onto that indomitable spirit—it defines who you are. With much love, Yourself in 2024.

  • Cosmetic stores to thrift to fish market

    Where would you go on a shopping spree?

    Oh my is this question for me? Was just thinking about it? Embarking on a vibrant day, I’d first immerse myself in the allure of cosmetic shopping, indulging in the quest for sunscreen and rejuvenating essentials. Then, weaving through the thrift store’s treasures, I’d cherry-pick some stylish shirts before succumbing to the irresistible allure of a local fish market, where the promise of a delightful fish fry awaits, satisfying both my cravings and the essence of a well-rounded day.

  • Greater than and less than sign in Math

    What is the last thing you learned?

    Not gonna lie, I have always been very confused with the sign of math except from the basic addition, substraction and multiplication sign. So today we were working on one Math problem and I made a mistake of greater and less than sign with the students. Ehhh I know it’s a challenge for me to not know it. I learn it today.

  • When are you getting married?

    What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

    Those questions like: How old are?How much is your salary?What can Women do? And recently most of the time I am being asked When are you getting married? These questions are like an allergy to me 😝

  • Failure the toughest teacher

    How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

    The saying goes, “Failure is the stepping stone to success,” but I seem to have encountered numerous stepping stones without achieving success in life. The stepping stones aren’t really significant, maybe lol. I hope to take a more substantial leap towards the success I am seeking very soon.

  • Journey demanding millions in patience and determination…

    You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

    In crafting the opening line of my autobiography, I would aptly express, “Embarking on a journey demanding millions in patience and determination, characterized by unending toils and trials.” This would definitely be my opening remarks.

  • What can be more important than money right now?

    What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

    Three objects I couldn’t live without are:
    1. Eye glasses 🕶️
    2. Money
    3. [Leave this space for anything more important than money.] I have to leave the space for some more important things that I can’t live without yet haven’t realised it at the moment.

  • Amazing people helped me to be a unique version of ME.

    What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

    That experience ( I’d prefer not to say) almost led me astray, making me doubt myself and question my worth. In those moments, I found myself belittling not only my capabilities but also becoming toxic to those around me. It’s challenging to fathom how a strong-headed woman can transform into such a person within a year. Nevertheless, I am grateful for the loved ones who provided space, allowed me to grow, prayed for me, and guided me towards becoming a better version of myself through those life experiences. I owe it all to Jesus for placing such wonderful and amazing people in my life. I am actively working on becoming a better version of myself.