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  • How I overcome Stage Fright and Empower Others

    Daily writing prompt
    Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?
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    Performing on stage is a diverse art form that encompasses various subjects. Most individuals are not inherently born as stage performers, yet some possess an inborn genius that allows them to effortlessly command the stage. While many people may shy away from the stage for any purpose, even if given the chance to do so, others excel in different artistic fields such as singing, acting, speaking, dancing, and more.

    As for myself, I am not a singer, dancer, or orator with the eloquence of figures like Shashi Tharoor or Michelle Obama, nor can I sing like Taylor Swift. I am an ordinary individual who becomes flustered and blushes whenever I step onto the stage. Despite my perceived limitations, I have participated in numerous performances on both big and small stages.

    My first experience on stage was in 1st standard when my mom urged me to recite a memory verse during the school assembly. I vividly recall feeling completely flustered and forgetting the lines I had learned. However, under the stern gaze of my mom, I managed to remember the verse, delivering it at lightning speed due to nervousness. Although no one could comprehend what I recited, I was excused that day as it marked my initial foray into stage performance.

    Since then, I have engaged in choir singing, delivered speeches, oriented people, provided training, and now I serve as a trainer guiding others in communication. The journey to reach this point was not easy, but I am committed to becoming a better version of myself each day. I am confident that, If given the opportunity and proper guidance, we can all excel in different fields, even those we never dreamed of.

  • Aptitude test?

    I am serious this time. I’ve noticed that my brain doesn’t function well during aptitude tests. Whenever I attempt one, I struggle to finish it with proper concentration or the will to think through the answers.

    I am confident that this is the result of excessive exposure to social media. Lately, I’ve been so attached to it that sometimes I can’t even stay away for a minute. Now, I lack the confidence to tackle aptitude tests, and it’s bothering me.

    I’m concerned about what might happen going forward. Do others face similar circumstances? In my case, it’s affecting my aptitude, but for others, it could be different experiences. We find ourselves in situations where it seems we lose control of our lives, and instead, life starts controlling us. This is a serious matter that I need to address and take immediate action on. I hope such situations don’t occur for anyone else.

  • Brand label shoes doesn’t matter

    Daily writing prompt
    What is something others do that sparks your admiration?
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    I find immense joy in the enchanting melodies of those who possess exceptional singing abilities. Their musical prowess never fails to captivate me, soothing my soul with every strum of their instruments. The attraction I feel towards such individuals is akin to a bee drawn irresistibly to a flower.

    Furthermore, when it comes to sports like football, basketball, or volleyball, the prowess displayed by skilled players is simply awe-inspiring. The rush of adrenaline they evoke is undeniable, often leaving me in a state of exhilaration. Jokes aside, I acknowledge that I am a person whose satisfaction is not easily attained, making it rare for me to genuinely like or accept someone. Once I form a connection with someone, I am unwilling to let it go easily, cherishing them with my entire being.

    While I may struggle to express myself eloquently, I am keenly aware of the profound gratitude I hold for each person who has touched my life. Admittedly, I can exhibit selfish and stingy tendencies, particularly when it comes to matters of money.

    As previously mentioned, the power of a captivating voice holds a special place in my heart. Neat and well-groomed attire sparks a significant interest in me, and I appreciate the meticulous care taken in maintaining clean footwear, regardless of whether it carries a brand label.

  • Childhood Cartoon

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s your favorite cartoon?
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    When we were young, we didn’t have a TV, so we rarely got to watch it, let alone a TV series. Even when we did watch, it was from the CD player, as the villagers didn’t have a signal to connect or a place to subscribe to channels. The one channel I remember was Tom and Jerry. We would run to our neighbors’ places to watch it and sometimes even had to contend with the elders for the channel, as they were uninterested in watching it. We were teenagers back then. I vividly remember the joy and laughter we shared with our cousins and talked about it after the show.

    Gone are the days when we’d watch over three rupees dried Mattar and 50 paise sweets. We would quarrel about eating too much and too fast, not sharing with the others. We would also trick the younger ones into eating more than them—haha. Reminiscing about it gives me nostalgia. Thanks for this daily prompt topic.

  • Procrastination?

    Daily writing prompt
    What could you do less of?
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    I really need to break free from procrastination; this habit has been bothering me lately. It crept in after I had those eerie nightmares (you know what I mean?). Yes, that’s right – exactly what you’re thinking. (You may want to refer to the “A Parrot in a Cage” page.) I am trying to cultivate the habit of taking swift action for all my responsibilities so that I do not become vulnerable to it.

  • How ‘One Day at a Time’ approach keeps me going

    If you had been reading my expressions daily, you would have understood me more or less to some extent. You might have a slight understanding of how I live my life, what I do, or my way of thinking. Today, like any other day, I had an insignificant yet blessed day. As I undertake the marathon journey of better living, I seem to have stuck at one point in time where the world stops revolving around me. I have faced numerous setbacks until now. I know I am seriously not in a position to relax and take one step at a time. Nevertheless, I am slowing down my pace and am looking forward to keep going instead of quitting or never moving forward. I am blessed that I am surrounded by wonderful people every single day who make my world a hundred times brighter. The simple question of “Ma’am, how are you? Are you okay?” makes my heart melt. If only I were in a better position, I would have no hesitation to stay longer.

  • Wildlife

    Daily writing prompt
    Do you ever see wild animals?
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    I have encountered wild animals such as deer, wild boars, civet cats, and flying squirrels during my childhood. In those days, hunting was permitted in my village, and my father, being a skilled sharpshooter, would hunt frequently. The animals were either for our family’s consumption or for commercial purposes, serving as the primary source of income for him at the time.

    However, hunting is now prohibited in the village, and owning guns without a license is illegal. Consequently, most people no longer own guns or engage in hunting. IN the past, even if they do, there is a conscious effort to preserve the wildlife. They ensure not to hunt pregnant animals or during breeding seasons, leaving behind some animals to allow for reproduction. This practice reflects a positive aspect of their approach to hunting. (It’s not encouraged to hunt even during the non breeding season now)

    Despite these efforts, the population of animals in the forest has significantly decreased compared to the past. I used to hear the sounds of deer near my house and monkeys hooting in the vicinity, but these sounds have become rare now. It is commendable that my fellow villagers decided to cease hunting, contributing to the conservation and increase in the animal population.

    It’s better late than never to implement such measures, as once the animals disappear completely, there’s no way to bring them back.

  • Benefits from partaking a month-long wholesome trip

    Daily writing prompt
    Do you have a favorite place you have visited? Where is it?
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    One of the best places I’ve visited so far is Leh Ladakh, India. Initially, I wasn’t familiar with the location and had limited knowledge about it. Formerly part of Jammu and Kashmir, it was known for its apples, snow, and share disputed borders with Pakistan and China (That was what I knew before visiting Leh Ladakh).

    I traveled there with a group of young people for a leadership training program that included international students. Proudly representing India and the Northeast, we embarked on this journey. Upon arrival, we had to acclimate to the climatic conditions and high altitude at the airport before proceeding to our destination.

    Adapting to the altitude was challenging for me, especially due to my sinusitis. As someone who often breathes through my mouth rather than my nose, I was bedridden for a week, missing out on opportunities to explore and play in the snow.

    Despite the initial setback, our experience in Leh Ladakh was filled with exciting activities. We hiked, rode camels, kayaked downstream, visited monuments and stupas, savored Ladakhi cuisine, immersed ourselves in Ladakhi culture, and learned about their lifestyles. We spent time at the SECMOL campus, listened to inspiring speakers, and even had the privilege of meeting His Holiness the Dalai Lama, gaining enlightenment from his wisdom.

    The trip provided a comprehensive package of new friendships, cultural insights, navigating through young adult life, and most importantly, an understanding of the impact of global warming and environmental changes on glaciers, the natural habitat of the snow leopard, and the local vegetation. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience and hope to return one day to relive it, of course, in good health. That was a wholesome trip, and the memories are truly cherished.

  • 5 secrets that makes me a better human

    Daily writing prompt
    Share five things you’re good at.
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    Here are five secrets that make me who I am today. Though I am not a perfect human beings I happy with what I am good at:

    1. Listening and Sympathizing: I am skilled at listening and understanding people’s emotions and feelings, offering sympathy and support.
    2. Storytelling: I excel in storytelling, engaging others with narratives that captivate their interest.
    3. Smiling and Laughing: People often mention that I have an infectious laughing style, and I am adept at smiling and bringing positivity to situations.
    4. Dealing with Children and Young People: I am effective in dealing with children and young people, easily capturing their attention without much struggle.
    5. Sleeping: I humorously refer to myself as a “sleep monster.” I am exceptionally good at sleeping, and can do so without much difficulty. But I can’t do my day without good proper sleep unlike others I requires sleep for at least 7 hours in a day.

    And that’s about it! Shall I continue with the list? If so, I fear I may float up to cloud nine, so I’ll remain ever grateful to Earth. Haha!

  • Greedy little heart!

    Daily writing prompt
    What is one thing you would change about yourself?
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    The one thing I would like to change about myself is to be more outgoing and smarter. Even though I am aware that I should be more people-oriented, most of the time I prefer staying inside the room rather than being among the crowd. This is mainly because I am least interested in unfamiliar talk or mere gossip. I don’t enjoy hearing others’ stories and socializing with them.

    I feel that I should be smarter in life in many ways; I sometimes feel like I lack intelligence. To achieve this, I know I need to be more outgoing and learn about what’s going on in society beyond just depending on news and social media updates. Yeah, that’s one aspect I wish I could change in life. Though I know there’s a lot to change and a lot more I long for in life. Haha, human wants are unlimited; forgive me for that. Can I add one more thing? I wish I were more of a risk-taker, and I wish I knew more about financial knowledge. Hmmmmm, the list seems to be going on and on without stopping, so let me end it here for today. Forgive my greedy heart. Haha!