Tag: success

  • Dear future me

    Write a letter to your 100-year-old self.

    Dear Self, congratulations on reaching this point! I am genuinely pleased that you’ve made it this far. As you read this today, recognize the blessings that surround you. You embody greatness as a devoted mother, wife, and grandma. The journey hasn’t been easy, and I acknowledge the strength it took to get here.

    Back in your late 20s, you carried the family with unwavering determination. Branded shirts and Gucci bags were absent, yet you exuded undeniable grace and fabulosity. Your dreams remained steadfast, and your resilience paved the way for your success today. Regardless of the challenges, your ability to smile and persist has transformed you into an exceptional human.

    Hold onto that indomitable spirit—it defines who you are. With much love, Yourself in 2024.

  • Failure the toughest teacher

    How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

    The saying goes, “Failure is the stepping stone to success,” but I seem to have encountered numerous stepping stones without achieving success in life. The stepping stones aren’t really significant, maybe lol. I hope to take a more substantial leap towards the success I am seeking very soon.

  • Why I complain about in life

    Bloganuary writing prompt
    What do you complain about the most?

    There are numerous things in life that I find myself complaining about. Haha, I’m not someone who leans heavily towards positive thinking or is an extreme pessimist. I become most agitated when confronted with a conceited person who engages in a lot of empty talk. Interestingly, I seem to have picked up this habit over time.

    I often find myself pondering why some people can enjoy life from such a young age, while I’m still figuring out how to navigate it. Consequently, I have plenty to complain about. Most of the time, my grievances revolve around life seeming unfair to me. Honestly, I can’t pinpoint what I complain about the most in life.

  • “Everyone is a hero!”

    In the year 2018, I listened to my students’ harrowing tales of Kerala’s devastating floods. They recounted their real-life ordeals of navigating through the floodwaters and enduring the aftermath. As I heard their stories, the distress they experienced became palpable, and I empathized deeply with their struggles. Many had endured nightmares as their homes succumbed to the deluge, forcing them to seek refuge in relief camps.

    However, my understanding took a profound turn when I watched the documentary “2018.” It dawned on me that what they had conveyed to me was merely the tip of the iceberg, and the extent of the devastation was far greater. My heart ached witnessing people grappling with the aftermath of decisions that led to such catastrophic consequences. I pondered what might have happened if certain preventive measures were taken or if they had heeded the warnings of their team members (as seen from the documentary)

    Fast forward to the end of that distressing year, the resilient people of Kerala faced yet another adversary—COVID-19. It’s remarkable how, despite these challenges, many of the individuals I’ve encountered have managed to rebuild their lives successfully. Reflecting on these adversities, I can’t help but contemplate how my own family might have coped in such circumstances and where we might be now.

    Beyond the miseries and dangers, these resilient individuals stand tall, facing the world with unwavering zeal. Their strength in the face of adversity has left a lasting impact on me, making me feel a bit stronger today.

  • Is it Truly as Simple as ABC?

    Is it truly as simple as ABC, as the saying goes? I distinctly remember struggling immensely to learn how to write the ABCs. It’s not just my own experience; observing young children grappling with the task underscores the difficulty of mastering the English alphabet. This challenge persists even among educated individuals well-versed in literature. So, why do we say “as easy as ABC” and not “as tough as ABC” or “as complicated as ABC”? The bias in this world, from the beginning to the end, is a perplexing aspect.

    As one of my college professors, particularly from the Political Science department, used to emphasize, “We are born with politics, live in politics, and carry it until our last day.” These words echo a truth about the omnipresence of politics in our lives.

    Allow me to express a few lines in my dialect, “Khipana khipali machong mei manem mei mana kachi li khipana ya chi paira? Ringkapha mirin wui shongza khangakhui hili kachipana kachangkhat eina ngakhui zatli doh? ” This underscores the challenges and intricacies embedded in existence.

    Indeed, it’s a competitive world where survival of the fittest reigns. Among billions, a handful live seemingly indifferent to the value of life. Half the population believes money is everything. Meanwhile, billions struggle tirelessly to bring sustenance home, while some grapple with the pressure of overcoming debts, and others rest beneath the weight of debts accumulated from people.

    Life, in its essence, is both unfair and just. The promises of truth prevailing, peace reigning, and justice being rewarded sound comforting, envisioning better days. Yet, are these promises mere notions one must patiently await to manifest in their lives?

    Unanswerable questions loom large, a shared uncertainty. Above all, the beacon that people ardently pursue is that of HOPE. It conquers the atrocities of life, washing away the bitterness of endless tears. I hope, one day, a brighter future will dawn.