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  • Four best lesson that 2023 taught me!

    The profound lesson that I gleaned from the tumultuous journey of 2023 is one that instills gratitude and a refusal to complain about life’s adversities. Despite encountering myriad highs and lows, including experiences of humiliation, shame, failures, disapproval, downfall, and the painful loss of loved ones, I find solace in acknowledging the transformative power of this challenging year.

    Regrettably, I confess that I struggled to accept myself during this period and, at times, found it difficult to seek divine intervention through prayer. Moments of questioning my very existence clouded my perspective. However, I realize now that my struggles were not eternal, my failures were not permanent, for 2023 granted me the opportunity to power down my internal engines and initiate a rejuvenating restart. Through this process, I’ve managed to re-focus my life and rediscover the capacity to smile once more.

    Expressing gratitude for the individuals who played pivotal roles in my life, teaching me profound lessons through their presence, I have come to appreciate the diversity of these lessons—some being the harshest, others sweet or bitter. Despite the challenges, I harbor no regrets about embracing these experiences. My earnest prayer extends to each of them, hoping they find or continue to experience the best that life has to offer.

    Allow me to share a few lessons from my 2023 odyssey:

    1. Politely refusing someone in a superior position is not an act of disrespect; rather, it signifies a person of integrity and self-respect.
    2. Recognize that the world extends beyond your limited perspective; embracing the diversity it offers can be a source of invaluable life lessons.
    3. Prioritize your well-being and mental health, even if it means disappointing others. In the grand scheme, it’s your life, not theirs.
    4. Life is ephemeral, and harboring resentment towards undeserving individuals is a futile endeavor. Embrace the wisdom of letting go and moving forward.

    These four insights encapsulate my learning from the past year, and I sincerely hope they prove beneficial to you in times of similar challenges. Take courage, stand up for yourself, for the sands of time do not grant us the luxury of reliving the same year. Seize the moment, act promptly, lest it be too late. Wishing everyone a fulfilling and prosperous 2024.

  • Can my day be done without Google?

    My go-to websites are, of course, Google and Chrome. I’ve become quite dependent on them, and whenever I have questions, I rely on them without hesitation. YouTube and Instagram also accompany me in many ways. So, like most people, these are my most frequently used websites.

    Recently, for some reason, I’ve found myself becoming more accustomed to using WordPress. I hope this is for the best, as it means I won’t waste my time aimlessly. Instead, I can use it to write down my thoughts and get lost in the words. Additionally, it allows me to connect with people by visiting their stories and thoughts. I hope this is a purposeful development.

  • Can I fast-forward my life?

    Life always holds surprises that can send your adrenaline racing and take you from rock bottom to success. At times, I find myself questioning whether I was born into the right family, society, or place. However, whether you call it destiny or fate, I believe that we are where we are today due to who we are, who we will become, and our past experiences.

    Having endured numerous challenges in life and finding myself barely hanging on, I don’t yearn to rewind or relive my life. Instead, I aspire to fast-forward to a point in life where I can genuinely say that I am grateful for my success.

    Oh how I wish life can be like a TV remote where you can fast-forward the boring never ending drama 🥱🙃