Tag: emotional

  • Who I am is more important than judgement from my appearance

    Maturing swiftly, seemingly unaware of the years passing by, I find myself blessed with yet another year. In my younger years, I held the belief that by my current age, I would have achieved complete independence. However, I now realize this was mere wishful thinking, as my plans were formulated without actively involving God in my prayers and aspirations. I was confident that I could contend with time and attain full independence, allowing my parents to enjoy their lives without concerns.

    Reality has struck hard; instead of bringing stress relief, I find myself weighed down by more worries. My plans and dreams have been inconsistent, often wavering from one idea to another. The pressure from my family adds to the uncertainty, making it challenging to hold onto a clear path. I am currently in pursuit of a job that offers better compensation, working tirelessly with the ultimate goal of reducing the pressure.

    My primary objective is to work diligently, earning more, with the bottom line being a desire for respect from my colleagues. I yearn for them to acknowledge and appreciate me for who I am, rather than forming judgments based on appearances.

  • Love comes in different form

    Bloganuary writing prompt
    Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

    I struggle to accept love, with my emotional quotient (EQ) as low as 30%. Expressing my own affection and responding to others’ displays of love pose significant challenges for me. Recently, I have been receiving an abundance of love from people, even those I haven’t known for long. The care and affection extended to me are immeasurable. When I mentioned my search for a better job opportunity, their reactions were a mix of happiness and prayers, for which I am deeply grateful to each one.

    They generously offered their assistance and provided valuable suggestions to help me find the best career opportunities in life. Their sincere desire for my well-being is truly heartwarming, and I am genuinely thankful for their support in shaping a better life for myself.