Tag: adventure

  • The College that shaped who I am today

    Daily writing prompt
    What colleges have you attended?

    The college that I initially perceived as a jail now holds the fondest memories for me. Every single memory I have from that time is cherished, making it the best college in the state. The institution has rules and regulations governing every activity, and adherence to these rules is mandatory. Though the rules are strict and unyielding, I have come to realize their immense value in shaping my life.

    I confess that I had expressed frustration and resentment, particularly towards the law enforcement personnel in the college and hostel. However, in retrospect, I acknowledge that these rules have proven to be incredibly advantageous for my personal growth. Each rule was in place for a specific reason, and I now understand the wisdom behind them.

    My college experience was not just about theoretical studies; it laid the foundation for my life, and I am profoundly grateful for it. Engaging in Social Work studies provided me with maximum opportunities, and I have no regrets about the discipline enforced in my college, where non-compliance came with consequences.

    Looking back, I appreciate the seemingly silly mischiefs, the competitive spirits, and the laughter over trivial matters that collectively defined my college life. I owe a debt of gratitude to the college for shaping me into the person I am today.

  • What is like to play with Children

    Daily writing prompt
    Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

    I haven’t been enjoying playtime as I did in the past. I adore spending time with children, engaging in spontaneous activities like running around, laughing, and giggling without any inhibitions. When playing with children, you forget about the complexities of the world—unhealthy competition, negativity, and worries all fade away. Your sole focus becomes making the child laugh, sharing moments of joy, and being loved for who you are to them. The satisfaction lies in their smiles and laughter, and you find yourself willing to do anything just to see the child smile back at you.

    Unfortunately, my playtime has become limited to online mobile games. Rarely, or not at all, do I engage in physical play. The only activities I currently partake in are going for a half-hour walk or doing some stretching exercises. Beyond that, I don’t involve myself in any games or recreational activities.

  • What is it takes to be a daughther of a middle class family?

    Navigating life as a daughter of a middle-class family in the Far East, where stable incomes are elusive, and with four siblings, each eager to broaden their horizons and make a meaningful impact, has proven to be a far more challenging journey than I could have anticipated. Adulting, a term I never thought would encompass such complexities, has forced me to confront the stark realities of financial instability.

    In those days, as I yearned to start earning and contribute to my family’s well-being, some elders dismissed my aspirations with laughter, insisting that life is not as straightforward as I believed. Initially, I felt annoyance and anger, vowing to prove them wrong. However, reality unfolded differently, and I learned the hard way that the wisdom of elders, derived from life experiences, is invaluable. Perhaps I should have heeded their warnings and savored my teenagehood more.

    Despite the challenges, my determination to move forward and face the world head-on persisted. As the eldest child, unexpectedly shouldering responsibilities akin to a second mother, I found myself in a role I had not anticipated. While I acknowledge that complaining is futile, understanding that I am entrusted with this role for a higher purpose keeps me focused.

    Observing friends who effortlessly achieve success and prosper in life leaves me both amazed and bewildered. I marvel at those who seemingly do nothing and yet lead comfortable lives with the support of their parents or siblings. It remains a mystery to me how they navigate life with such ease while I toil daily, not only to overcome hurdles but also to manage the debt incurred in pursuit of my education.

    This surreal life, uncharted and unanticipated, has failed to come with a warning. Nevertheless, the challenges I face and the experiences I endure are shaping me into a better human being. Each trial, each hardship, is a precious gem contributing to my unique journey and making me distinctly different.

  • How I Journey for Healing and Hope

    Self-reflection day! Just when a path seems clear, life introduces even greater stumbling blocks. Success, seemingly within reach, often eludes us, appearing farther away than our hopeful visions. It may seem unjust to many, yet numerous individuals have achieved remarkable feats this year. As the year draws to a close, celebrations abound for those who have conquered milestones, but there exists a handful mourning the year’s end due to debt repayment, personal failures, worries about their children’s education, and more.

    My question today is, have we gleaned valuable lessons from the experiences of this year? Do we harbor any regrets in life? Is there room for improvement that we recognize within ourselves? Are we confident enough to step into a new year with a hopeful heart, or are we still contemplating what lies ahead? I won’t deny that I’ve encountered thousands of setbacks this year, making it a challenging period filled with burdens and trials. However, I can proudly proclaim that amidst these challenges, I’ve learned the art of healing, and for that, I am grateful to God.

    As Christmas approaches, my wish is that Santa brings a better life for me and my family in the coming year. Amen!

  • Here’s why I play Candy Crush Saga, the reasons will surprise you

    Daily writing prompt
    What was the last thing you did for play or fun?

    “Candy Crush Saga” is a go-to for me, especially when I need time to think or concentrate. I often find myself playing it before diving into work. The game is both fun and distressing, particularly when I cfunan’t conquer a level. It adds a layer of challenge, testing my ability to strategize my next move.

    I’ve been indulging in this game for nearly three years now, and just 30 minutes ago, I was at it again. While consistency is a challenge in my workplace, with limited time to play, I seize the opportunity whenever a moment arises.

    The game not only serves as a source of entertainment but also acts as a quick mental break. It allows me to unwind and refocus, making it an integral part of my routine whenever I can spare a few moments.