Those childhood memories make me feel nostalgic; gone are the days when we were innocent, finding contentment in half a slice of bread or a piece of candy. Watching movies after end-of-term exams had us eagerly anticipating the day. Engaging in chit-chat about our crushes in class captured all our attention, and nothing could make us happier than gossiping about the seniors’ love stories. Let’s not forget those silly fights and crying profusely over trivial reasons just to seek the attention of our parents or teachers… Ah! those were the days.
Tag: creative writing
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Four best lesson that 2023 taught me!
The profound lesson that I gleaned from the tumultuous journey of 2023 is one that instills gratitude and a refusal to complain about life’s adversities. Despite encountering myriad highs and lows, including experiences of humiliation, shame, failures, disapproval, downfall, and the painful loss of loved ones, I find solace in acknowledging the transformative power of this challenging year.
Regrettably, I confess that I struggled to accept myself during this period and, at times, found it difficult to seek divine intervention through prayer. Moments of questioning my very existence clouded my perspective. However, I realize now that my struggles were not eternal, my failures were not permanent, for 2023 granted me the opportunity to power down my internal engines and initiate a rejuvenating restart. Through this process, I’ve managed to re-focus my life and rediscover the capacity to smile once more.
Expressing gratitude for the individuals who played pivotal roles in my life, teaching me profound lessons through their presence, I have come to appreciate the diversity of these lessons—some being the harshest, others sweet or bitter. Despite the challenges, I harbor no regrets about embracing these experiences. My earnest prayer extends to each of them, hoping they find or continue to experience the best that life has to offer.
Allow me to share a few lessons from my 2023 odyssey:
- Politely refusing someone in a superior position is not an act of disrespect; rather, it signifies a person of integrity and self-respect.
- Recognize that the world extends beyond your limited perspective; embracing the diversity it offers can be a source of invaluable life lessons.
- Prioritize your well-being and mental health, even if it means disappointing others. In the grand scheme, it’s your life, not theirs.
- Life is ephemeral, and harboring resentment towards undeserving individuals is a futile endeavor. Embrace the wisdom of letting go and moving forward.
These four insights encapsulate my learning from the past year, and I sincerely hope they prove beneficial to you in times of similar challenges. Take courage, stand up for yourself, for the sands of time do not grant us the luxury of reliving the same year. Seize the moment, act promptly, lest it be too late. Wishing everyone a fulfilling and prosperous 2024.
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What is it takes to be a daughther of a middle class family?
Navigating life as a daughter of a middle-class family in the Far East, where stable incomes are elusive, and with four siblings, each eager to broaden their horizons and make a meaningful impact, has proven to be a far more challenging journey than I could have anticipated. Adulting, a term I never thought would encompass such complexities, has forced me to confront the stark realities of financial instability.
In those days, as I yearned to start earning and contribute to my family’s well-being, some elders dismissed my aspirations with laughter, insisting that life is not as straightforward as I believed. Initially, I felt annoyance and anger, vowing to prove them wrong. However, reality unfolded differently, and I learned the hard way that the wisdom of elders, derived from life experiences, is invaluable. Perhaps I should have heeded their warnings and savored my teenagehood more.
Despite the challenges, my determination to move forward and face the world head-on persisted. As the eldest child, unexpectedly shouldering responsibilities akin to a second mother, I found myself in a role I had not anticipated. While I acknowledge that complaining is futile, understanding that I am entrusted with this role for a higher purpose keeps me focused.
Observing friends who effortlessly achieve success and prosper in life leaves me both amazed and bewildered. I marvel at those who seemingly do nothing and yet lead comfortable lives with the support of their parents or siblings. It remains a mystery to me how they navigate life with such ease while I toil daily, not only to overcome hurdles but also to manage the debt incurred in pursuit of my education.
This surreal life, uncharted and unanticipated, has failed to come with a warning. Nevertheless, the challenges I face and the experiences I endure are shaping me into a better human being. Each trial, each hardship, is a precious gem contributing to my unique journey and making me distinctly different.
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Swat 2017- movie review: 2 characters who gave me goosebumps.
I haven’t done many movie reviews, except for the obligatory ones for extra credit during term-end exams in college—gotta boost that scorecard! Today, I want to share a brief opinion on a series that, in my view, is worth your time—SWAT. The first season was released in 2017, and it spans five seasons.
The story revolves around a team of seven, led by the Commander. However, the main actor is the team leader or sergeant known as ‘HONDO,’ Daniel Harrelson. HONDO is a man who shoulders every responsibility, being accountable for his team, the state of Los Angeles, and his loved ones. Amidst the challenges, he strives to mend relationships within his broken family, navigate friendships, parenthood, and love life.
The series unfolds with the team, facing risks and challenges as highly trained LAPD SWAT members, consistently finding solutions for the chaotic situations in Los Angeles. Sergeant Deacon, a family man and a decorated police officer, battles financial difficulties, putting his family at risk and working diligently to protect the state.
Each team member faces personal challenges, yet they maintain composure, dedicating themselves to their work, risking their lives to save others. The series highlights themes of trust, unity, belongingness, love, and dedication. It emphasizes standing tall for what’s right, unwavering in the face of negativity.
If you have the time, I highly recommend checking out this series. It’s a compelling narrative that explores the virtues of trust, unity, love, and dedication while portraying the relentless pursuit of justice by the LAPD SWAT team.
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How I plan for my perfect reading space!
Daily writing promptYou get to build your perfect space for reading and writing. What’s it like?A perfect reading space lies down the corner of the hall, adjacent to the garden outside. With a patio back door that directly connects to the garden, this reading room is designed for tranquility and inspiration. The room features a diverse collection of books spanning different genres from decades.
I envision the room to be designed in a classic style, utilizing resources sourced from the same land. The aesthetic will seamlessly blend with the surroundings, creating a harmonious and timeless atmosphere. Additionally, I’d love to incorporate some greenery inside, cultivating plants right outside the back door to enhance the natural ambiance of the reading space.
