The profound transformations ushered in by modernization and industrialization have left an indelible mark on our era. In the present day, the process of modernizing society, spearheaded by the youthful generation, has grown immensely complex, exceeding our wildest expectations. The educated and eager young minds of today have been swept up in the whirlwind of progress and the sweeping changes brought about by the modern world to such an extent that they are harnessing its advantages to the fullest.

     Youth in North East India, like many around the world, are increasingly enamored with Western culture. The prevalence of Korean pop culture imitation, for instance, is quite abundant. It’s evident that many aspire to connect their dreams with the pursuit of independence, wanting to reach for the stars. It’s a pivotal moment to contemplate whether ‘hitting the jackpot’ is a priority on my list. The future lies within our grasp, and we have the power to transform life’s challenges into opportunities, turning the bed of thorns into a bed of roses.

   In my perspective, the modern world seems to have overlooked some of its most precious treasures. I question whether, if asked about our own identity, we would provide an accurate and genuine response. Who should shoulder the blame for this disconnect?

       In today’s world, it often appears that embracing honesty, both with ourselves and others, is considered outdated. Instead, we tend to mimic the lives of those around us, without recognizing that each of us holds a unique set of questions and challenges. Trying to replicate someone else’s lifestyle cannot transform us into them, as each individual is inherently distinct and one-of-a-kind.

      Many of us, especially the youth, find ourselves emulating Western styles, be it in our eating habits, drinking preferences, fashion choices, cosmetic routines, or even the languages we adopt. We often revel in the illusion of being on cloud nine, surrounded by numerous fair-weather friends, all the while unaware that some of them may be wolves in sheep’s clothing.

     True enjoyment and satisfaction in life can only be attained when we have a deep love and appreciation for ourselves. Countless hidden treasures await discovery if we approach life with a realistic and optimistic perspective, making the most of the resources at our disposal. Merely observing and emulating others won’t lead to success. Rather than being imitators, let us proactively create something unique from our own talents and abilities, so that others may be inspired to emulate us.

“To effect meaningful change in the world, it is imperative to begin by changing oneself.”