Aimless wandering without a clear destination is rarely an adventurous journey. Personally, I prefer being engaged in something meaningful rather than drifting without purpose. However, there are days when I feel so lethargic that even getting up to use the restroom seems like a challenge. It’s fascinating how mood swings can make a day rich with various shades of experience—gloomy, cloudy, sunny, and pleasant.
At 27, I realized that mood swings extend beyond the typical PMS cycle and can affect both men and women, including those going through menopause. This insight has made me more aware of the range of personalities I can exhibit, from introverted to extroverted, from shy and quiet to loud and active, and many others that I have recently discovered.
Do you believe that mood swings are not exclusive to women experiencing PMS but are common to almost everyone, including animals? How do you manage your own mood swings?
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Drifting mind
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Confidence
What do you think gets better with age?
Through age comes wisdom, shaped by experiences, lessons, learnings, and ideas that lead to accepting life as it is and not being too harsh on oneself. Through all the ups and downs, I master self-discovery and look forward to what life has to offer. We become a better version of ourselves every day, and with this, we build confidence in what we are doing. The most difficult tasks become part of our everyday routine. I know I am not wrong in saying that through age I gain confidence, because that’s exactly how I am living my life now. The curiosity to try and take action makes everything different. So, I am grounding myself to take action and give it a try. If it works, it works; if not, I can always go to plan B.
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Not Fretting about What’s next?
What does freedom mean to you?
Freedom, to me, means not constantly fretting about “What’s next?” Often, we convince ourselves we’re content in our shell, yet beneath the surface, many of us harbor unknown worries. Some of us become overly preoccupied with tomorrow or the future. I’m one of those individuals who can’t shake the obsession with “what’s next?” I’ve attempted countless times and in myriad ways to live in the moment, but external pressures and my eldest daughter’s trauma persistently haunt me. It’s easier said than done, you know. Amidst all this turmoil, one thing remains certain: surrendering and entrusting all worries and concerns to the Almighty brings solace and peace of mind. As for you, how do you manage your anxieties and worries?
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Don’t quite like the ME of this digital era.
How have you adapted to the changes brought on by the Covid-19 pandemic?
Adapting to the quantum of change hasn’t been easy; initially challenging, over time, many have adjusted to the new lifestyle. However, for me, it’s been a roller coaster. I’ve noticed a decrease in efficiency, activity levels, and an alarming amount of hair loss, alongside a decline in memory sharpness. Moreover, I find myself increasingly reliant on digital over manual tasks, which, while convenient, fosters a sense of dependency and addiction. Overall, I’m not entirely comfortable with how seamlessly I’ve integrated into this new way of life.
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A woman rushing through each task
What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like?
My mornings are undeniably busy. I wake up around 6:30 AM, and with school starting at 8:00 AM, I have just an hour and a half to prepare breakfast, get ready for class, tidy up the house, and feed the pets. Despite my best efforts, I often find myself running behind schedule, feeling like a woman on a mission, rushing through each task as if my life depended on it.
